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[quote=Anonymous]I really do feel for you.  It's difficult to be so lonely in a marriage.  I can't relate to having a husband willing to do so much, but I can relate to being lonely.

I'd also vote for counseling.  It sounds like this situation will not resolve itself and you will be relegated to being room-mates and coparents.

You both sound like you have a lot to offer.  I suspect that you can really improve things if you are both willing.  I think that he may react with anger at first, and you'll have to be strong to deal with that.

My last thought is that he may have some sort of addiction. He sounds like he uses the garden and other tasks to isolate himself.  i realize that this is a bit of an extreme thought -- but is it possible that when he stays up late, he looks at a lot of porn or something?  Or drinks?  His anger, isolation, and inflexibility sound just like an addict -- or even the behavior of an adult raised by alcoholics or addicts.

Anyway, you sound like a nice person, and I wish you well.  Ignore the addict stuff if I am totally off base.  I just wanted to throw out something that I know because of my own addictions.[/quote]

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