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[quote=Anonymous]I would just like to say- my DH was/is in the exact same boat as you. He constantly complained about lack of sex. In reality sex was all about his pleasure and not at all about mine. I communicated this to him many times. He would try to please me for a couple of times, then i guess it turned into too much work.
He began taking a co worker out alone after work. He constantly talks about her. I am not at all angry at the woman. She is 12 years younger than him and he is her boss. How can she say no?
When I found out what he was doing I wanted to kill him. I was so hurt and confused i couldnt even function for days. It was not a pretty sight. 
To this day he still believes he did nothing wrong. He only feels bad that i got upset about it.
He brought up lack of sex- why would he bring that up if he didnt feel it was wrong to do?
I told DH - why would I enjoy sex when there is no enjoyment for me? Think about what you are doing with your wife? Is there foreplay? Seriously ask yourself some questions about it.
I will honestly say- i will NEVER trust a word out of my husbands mouth again. But after 25 years I am finally enjoying sex, because He finally realized how selfish he was in bed.[/quote]

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