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[quote=Anonymous]OP, this could be my marriage, or what I mean to say is that you could be my DH. My DH is so very angry, so very angry. We'll see where the marriage goes, after 30 years. On counseling, I think you should try, but you may know after 4-5 sessions whether it will work. I'm not saying only give it 4-5x, but that you'll see whether it devolves into tirades by one or both of you, and you'll get a sense of her heart. And don't go into it thinking it is all about fixing her. One thing to think about is whether you want to just "do it" or whether you require her to have passion. If the former, perhaps set up a couple of times a week where sex is expected. She can feel she's done her job, and you get "it." If you want her to love it, that is tougher. (Folks will take umbrage at this, but it is a practical solution if you're unsure about divorce.) Final point: the grass may not be greener on the other side. Good luck.[/quote]
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