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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]well clearly, she doesn't want him because he's a spoiled, entitled asshole. THIS is so why I never, ever want to be married again. I only do it on MY terms nowadays. And I love every second of it![/quote] So him wanting sex [b]with his wife[/b] more than 3 times in 8+ weeks (this includes her 10 day trip) makes him spoiled/entitled asshole?[/quote] No! His attitude about the problem, his sending her a freakin EXCEL file, when she is on her way out of town, demonstrates that he is a world class jerk. If he would do those things, he must be really charming! It's a question of what came first. Did a lack of sex make him an ass? Or did his being an ass cause her not to desire him? No matter what the answer, a bitchy spreadsheet is not the way to get laid, or to have a happy marriage. [/quote] Dear Obvious Mensa member, Did it ever occur to you for second that perhaps his "attitude" about the problem was because of the lame excuse? Do you think that this Excel sheet tells the complete story? Or, within that genius mind of yours, did the possibility pop into your head that this was happening WAAAYY before this for a VERRRY long time before he finally decided to make a list? In reality, this is also a journal of sorts. If a woman came and posted a journal of her abysmal sex life, you bitches would be out there calling for his head. The only way to solve a problem is to evaluate things fairly. You kind of realized this halfway into your post. You came so close to redeeming yourself and not me thinking that you were a complete idiot. A partial one nonetheless, but still an idiot. You wrote, "No matter what the answer...".....really??!?!?!? No matter WHAT? Seriously, such thinking shows how closed minded you are. How about blaming the lame-ass excuses? Never once was the reason..."You're a jerk! that is why I dont want to have sex with you, etc etc." Instead the recorded answers were all lame. Believe it or not, professor, lame excuses are hurtful if those are the only reasons. Oh why, you say? Finally, a good question from the likes of someone of your miniscule intellect (I'm trying to be nice here). It is because he was apparently trying in every way, but to only get shot down by these lame ass excuses. And though he is not a perfect person, he should be at least afforded the reasons as to why he was being rejected by the one person who made him believe that he should only be having sex with her. Stop perpetuating women have no fault in relationships. You probably feel that you're awesome. Perhaps. But the essence of your post and your "thinking" ends up being the very bane of many men's sex lives, and consequently their marriages. Take some time to reflect in life, about life, for your life. You'll be better for it. [/quote]
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