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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a wife who denies sex for made-up, trivial reasons.  But the real reason is my husband's lack of hygiene.  He has bad breath and crotch BO, and it infuriates me.  I used to tell him to go take a shower and brush his teeth, but having to remind him really kills the mood for me.  It is embarrassing and disappointing to me that I have to have this conversation over and over, with a grown man.  It's like having a third child.  And it's disrespectful, because no matter how many times I ask him, he never changes.  So after about 100 times having the awkward bad breath conversation and dealing with oh-so-sensitive hurt feelings, eventually I just gave up.  I just cannot stomach discussing his BO and halitosis every goddamn time he wants to get laid, so I make up trivial reasons.  If he wants me to motivate for sex, he needs to motivate for hygiene, it's a two way street.

Asshole spreadsheet husband should take an inventory of his own shortcomings.  I'm sure there are plenty.[/quote]

It matters very much whether the excuse-giving, sex-denying spouse has been clear about the real problem in the past. If so, the sex demanding passive aggressive list keeping spouse is in the wrong. But if the excuses have always been lies, then the denying spouse is in the wrong. [/quote]

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