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[quote=Anonymous][quote=liamw]I just read the first couple of pages, but as a divorced man I can understand the frustration as I dealt with the same from my X. I put her through school we had no kids so it did make leaving easier, the hardest part was admitting I had failed to make it work. Was I to blame? Was she? Was the Army. It took a long time to realize that you can love some one and still not be in love with them. A union is meant to be a support group your meant to be each others rock, when that fails so does the union. Have you recommended counseling, has he always been this way, often detachment is a coping mechanism. My X wife became detached and cruel after my first deployment, and at that point in my life I was not leaving the Military so I held on for a couple more years and it got worse and worse, the day I started questioning my worth was the day I filed papers. Being older and wiser I am sure there are things we could have done to try to fix it, but one thing I learned from a much older and wiser NCO is you can fix broken, broken isn't bad ya cant fix shattered. What ya need to do is figure out which situation are you in, broken or shattered. Make a list of the things you still love about him and the things you have grown to hate ask him to do the same and see if you cant get back to the core of what made you marry the man and give him a child if you can't well then the next step is pretty clear. As far as a child in a broken home speaking from experience, a home doesn't have to be divided for a child to realize its broken. [/quote]

+1 on the difference between broken and shattered.[/quote]

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