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[quote=Anonymous]This is a tough one. From OPs post alone, it sounds 
Like his wife is a limited and narrow person who is, in short, an ingrate. He is open to the forces that shaped her, but it sounds like she is closed off from similar insights, which is a pretty severe insight deficit.

OP, you are a person who definitely has shown cultivation of some virtues, and the desire to cultivate virtues. I am on the same page with that. In my opinion, that
 is what a life is all about. But is your wife on that page?

IMO, as a person who has family that just wants to act badly and be dishonest, you have to claim your authority and right place, while dissing the rest. In other words, thank her for her work in doing easter, and then refuse to be relegated to leftovers. Assert your place, establish your worth, nonnegotiable, period. You supported her for years. You are a team. She needs to pull the sled too, and also to explicitly appreciate your effort. It may sound silly, or old school but men eat more. One easy way to appreciate men is to flip pin' feed them what they want, which is usually meat and apple pie, with ice cream. It isn't hard!
If she is an ingrate, you need to acknowledge and just do what is right, regardless. You have already proven your worth in this relationship. Do not disrespect yourself, just because she is ungrateful.[/quote]

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