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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I never realized how deeply rejected men feel when their wives turn them down for sex until I began reading this forum.  Whenever my dh asked for sex and I said no, I never thought of it as that big of a deal.  Oh well, we'll do it next time.  Then I read this post here from a guy who described in detail how sad it made him, how it just shot down his whole self-esteem, especially when it happened over and over again.  I think it leads to some guys cheating.

Do other men feel this way?  Is it bigger for you emotionally than your wife realizes?[/quote]

Yes.  It is a big downer.  Its all fun and games when you are single, out in a bar or whatever.  But then you find a woman you really love.  Then, for no real reason, you get turned down.

Believe me,  it hurts.  I'm going through the same thing right now, but things are getting better.  Wives, listen up. Your husbands love you, so make love with them.

and yes, I can see how it makes them cheat, but not for the pure experience of orgasm, but the need to feel wanted, desired, and for affection.  My wife at least french kisses me deeply every day.  Believe it or not it makes a huge difference.[/quote]

But I don't want DH. I don't want to kiss him. I don't want to have sex with him. I don't want him.  I would like to have a sex life again, but not with him.

I asked him to agree to an amicable divorce, but he won't agree to it. I don't want to start WWIII over this, but I really don't want him.  I've been very clear with him about it and my desire for a divorce.

So... at least in my case, you're not wrong about what "no sex" means. It means I want out.

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