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DH is constantly having explosive bowel movements and spends most of his day in the loo.  We often get sick because of his germs left behind, thought I scrub the toilets every day to try to prevent it.  He mentions everyday (like a child) that his "belly is upset", but refuses to eat right (a left over from his family with food issues).

He does not pick up after himself; and refuses to pitch in for "women's work" (anything) around the house.  But he LOVES making a mess, and leaving piles of stuff everywhere.  His favorite is covering any blank space (countertops, tables, et al) with piles - his "contribution" to the household.

Vacations are a time for him to act out his hostility the most, just like his birth family.  If I am enjoying something, he sees it as his personal mission to make it not so; often ending in an eruption of his being "tired" (fill in the blank with whine, anger and hostility here).

His unmet needs by his parents and siblings are just the start of it.

No one in our neighborhood (he has no friends) would have any idea that he is a terror to live with, prone to emotional meltdowns, triangulating against me (for his reasonings that don't exist - gas lighting) and scaring the children regularly.  They would think he is the nicest, smartest guy they have ever met.

In fact, he is an angry, inconsiderate cad all around.  Glad you asked, OP?

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I am sorry -- sounds like his issues are emotional. I hope he is able to work thru this so as to make your family life more enjoyable.[/quote]

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