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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]why is it a well known adage that both men and women lie about their numbers? to find out the truth you take the men's and divide by two and the women's and multiply by two.

I think it is really unrealistic for the PP who has had 1 partner since she was 16 to even speculate what it would be like to find out that her partner had 25 or 50 partners prior to her and what that would feel like.  or how should would even feel if she had had 20 different men fuck her before she got married.

We were once taught that sex was a special and sacred act to be shared between two people that love each other.

how special could it be if you've done it with 30 other people by age 25?

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We were also once taught that women reading books made them sterile.[/quote]

why have feminists devalued sex?

this is what I don't understand.

the one thing they had that men could never get without them - sex - and they just give it away like it has no value. they DEEM it to have no value!

I never understood that[/quote]

Because you are an old dinosaur, no longer capable of understanding the nuances of sexuality. I think you also watched too much Leave it to Beaver.[/quote]

everything in life is about sex.  except sex.  that is about power.

and giving it away takes away all the power.  
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"sex" is not something you stockpile, and once you "give it away" is somehow lost.

I feel like you have some very unhealthy and archaic attitudes towards sex. I agree that a lot of things in life are about sex, and sex *can* be about power. But if you attribute sex as only and strictly only about power and something women "give away," then, I think this isn't something we can help you with.

A lot of women really like and enjoy sex - for themselves and their own fulfillment. It's something they crave, need, want, desire, and can be powerful with. It's also a form of sharing, giving, connecting, and entirely what it means to individuals at different times.

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