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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]16:25, DH went away for a long weekend while DS was one month old.  It was something planned long in advance and was a celebration welcoming home a friend from Afghanistan.  And when DH returned, he encouraged me to take nights off, go out with my friends, and when I felt able to, have a girls weekend.  Not every man doesn't understand the different dynamics of dad with a baby and mom with a baby.  I guess I just lucked out and found one that understood my feelings as well.

I think it is unfair to be mad at her husband because he has a guys weekend.  It is only unfair if her husband never let her have a girls weekend when she wanted to/was ready.  [/quote]

Well good for you, PP. But I dare say welcoming home a friend from war is far different than abandoning a woman with two babies at home while he goes to strip clubs, casinos and get drunk. Don't ya think? And then he lied about it, because he didn't want to deal with the aftermath. A toddler and a newborn are also far different than a 1 month old. Nowhere did I read her husband has returned the favor. I could be wrong....I'm sure she gets out for fun night with the girls all the time![/quote]

Come on now....spare the drama.  He is the best man in a wedding!!!  Should he tell the groom (who I assume is family or close friend) that he is blowing him off because his wife does not like the activities or because his wife does not want him out of the house?  Sure, marriage and parenthood is an obligation that requires responsibility and communication.  It is NOT a prison sentence or supervised probation.  She should address the lying, but the abandonment theory is looney. [/quote]

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