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There are 3-4 different issues all mixed up here and OP needs to separate them before having any discussion with him.

1.	 Her objecting to him going to a strip club.  How important is this really?  Would OP have the same angst if DH was going to a golf weekend instead of club hopping?

2.	 Her problem with DH going away for the weekend while she is home with the kids.  This is a larger issue than the OP lets on.  However, I noted that she had said more than once that he gets to go hang with the boys while she is home.  I assume that since he is the best man, he is pretty close with the groom.  So it seems like there is a little “he is choosing his friends over me” vibe going on.  Truthfully, if my spouse is going to be mad either way (just because I am gone), I am going to live it up for that weekend.

3.	The lying.  I do not condone it, but I understand.  PP was right, most men omit certain facts in order to keep the peace at home.  Believe it or not, DH is between a rock and a hard place on this one.  He does what his wife wants and he puts a damper on his friend’s festivities.  He goes along with the flow at the bachelor party and OP is mad.  
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