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[quote=Anonymous]NP here.  I want to provide some food for thought.  This is purely anecdotal, but in my experience men like to take the path of least resistance meaning they are willing to do whatever it takes to get what they want without having to deal with outbursts, tears, anger, etc.  The other thing that is that men have learned that telling a women what she wants to here, generally leads to a better outcome - even if its not the truth.

For example, you put on a dress that doesn't flatter you and you ask your husband.  He can tell you the truth or what you want to hear.  He opts to tell you what you want to hear bc it will keep the peace.  Did he lie - yes but in his mind its for the greater good.

So when you gave him a chance to tell truth, he didn't because ultimately he knows that you really are NOT going to be okay if he goes.  You'll probably keep dragging it out every time, he makes you mad. I noticed you keep mentioning that you let him go to another outing when you were pregnant with your first child and how you are letting him go off again while you are stuck at home.

Good luck tonight but I think your success depends on how well you can convince him that telling truth will not have any of the consequences that he fears.

As a disclaimer, not all men are like this and I am no way condoning lying.  Rather, trying to offer some insight.  Of course I could be totally off base.  Either way - good luck again.[/quote]

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