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[quote=Anonymous]I have a sister and brother-in-law who have no boundaries, are fairly self-centered, and who insist on bringing their dog with them to family events and other gatherings.  The dog nipped me and my Mom out of the blue the first time we met her, we weren't trying to pet the dog or anything (the dog has done the same to other people).  Because of that experience, I get nervous around dogs that remind me of her (Doberman) whereas I was never nervous in the past and have always loved dogs (my own and other peoples).  My sister and brother-in-law repeatedly showed up with their dog without asking.  I finally drew the line, told them I was afraid of their dog because she bit my hand, and told them to please leave her home if she was coming to something I was hosting.  They got upset and told me the dog was like her kid and they should not have to leave her home (she has no kids).  I explained that my husband and I don't assume that our children are invited everywhere with us and we bring them only when they are welcome.  We hire a babysitter or stay home if we are invited to something that is not appropriate for children.  I really think your sister is over stepping.  She can board the dog or bring the dog with her but stay at a dog friendly hotel instead of your house.  [/quote]

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