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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In my case - hell if I would want to fuck my emotionally abusive husband who can't ever self reflect or ever say sorry or contantly tell me anyway I was feeling was wrong? My fault - hell no!  There's no duty in having to fuck that kind of person even if you are married to the bastard. Props to me for leaving and finally getting sex on my terms.  
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I'm assuming by "leaving" you meant you divorced and now you got something meaningful.  No shame in that.  But in a good marriage, sometimes you do things because it makes your partner happy.  It's no all about you in marriage.  In fact, it rarely ever is.[/quote]

Excellent point.  So what is my partner doing in this equation to make me happy?[/quote]

If we are still talking about your previous marriage that ended in the divorce, I think the answer is obvious. I was talking about a good marriage. [/quote]

So am I.  I am not the PP you quoted, my partner is not emotionally abusive and I am not divorced.  If I give in to sex whenever my husband wants, what is he sacrificing to make me happy?  Or is my happiness not important as well?
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I guaranteed you that he asks for sex about 1/3 as often as he'd really like it. That hadn't occurred to you?[/quote]

In which case, you're not advocating that he should get sex whenever he wants it--you're advocating some sort of compromise, correct?[/quote]

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