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[quote=Anonymous]I'm remembering when I was engaged, and my then-fiance/now-husband wanted to pay off my credit card balance, which was super high, like $5,000. I said no way, what are you talking about? He said, and I'll never forget it, "who cares, we're getting married, it's all going to be ours anyway, debt, income, all of it. I hate debt, let's just get rid of it and start clean." He did, and we've been supporting each other financially ever since. He lost his job, I stepped up. We moved, so I lost my job, he stepped up. We're both working and feel good right now, knowing that anything can happen so we feel lucky. OP, this just isn't normal. The highs and lows should be shared, not negotiated so that one party only shares in the highs and punts the lows. [/quote]
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