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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She belongs with her bio-Dad. I don't see how the adoptive family can even sleep at night knowing this child is wanted by her family of origin and yet still wanting to keep her, as if she's a pet and not a human.[/quote] Agreed. Adoption should not be about taking children from parents willing to raise their children. This entire case is a disgrace. At the very least, the biological Dad should be allowed 50/50 custody of the child. [/quote] But, of course, he wasn't interested in raising his daughter when he needed to make that decision. He's not entitled to come back, months later, when she has a stable home and declare his 'rights.' His use of the IWCA was (as the Supreme Court found) not what the law was intended for. It's almost absurd that he used this law. There is nothing in the record to indicate that the adoptive parents stole this child - this child was placed with them by the biological mother who still firmly stands by her decision. [/quote] Mothers shouldn't be the final say in adoption. Fathers should also have a say. To suggest otherwise, is highly insulting. [/quote] Wow. But here, the mother has NO say. Gestational mother's rights trump the sperm donor's. And that is all he was through 9 months of pregnancy and 4 months of his dd's life. Stop rewriting the story to make him somehow the victim. Go back and read the court records. You would be shocked, apparently, as you think he was deceived. Nope - you are advocating for a man who said, you can raise the baby by yourself with no financial, physical or emotional support from me, as I drop off the face of the earth after impregnating you. I will never call about the baby, or show any interest in seeing her. I will never send you a single dime to support her. I am happy to let you raise the child as a single mother, but God forbid you try to put the child's interests first and let someone else adopt her. Wow. You have chosen to back a prince of a man. :roll: [/quote]
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