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I would have hidden the money better.

A girlfriend once told me that, if she could, she'd give me 10k (a lot of money in the 1980s) before I got married so I could always afford to leave when things got bad. Her mother was is a horrifically abusive relationship.

I had 30k liquid, just out of sight, when I got married. And, when I was divorce with two kids, that money made a whole lot of difference in terms of our experience adjusting to life without a partner.

Any woman to leave her future at the mercy of a shifting tide is a f&cking fool.

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I would have hidden the money better, also.  It should have remained a secret that she's stockpiling it.  I learned this lesson in hindsight after a bad divorce.  Fortunately, I became a resourceful single mom with two kids.  Never again will I allow myself to become totally dependent on another human being.

OP, learn how to keep your mouth shut and take better care of yourself, no, you don't want to be caught penniless.  I agree you should get a part-time job, at least.  Good luck to you.[/quote]

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