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[quote=Anonymous]Compensation for what?  The money isn't spent - it's sitting in an account in her name.  I see the insurance payments made out on our policy, I saw the receipts for the work done, I saw the trail of EFTs to the bank account(s) and I saw her bank statement.

I don't know, but would your DH or DW spend $5K without first asking you?  Would they go and spend the money on a "much needed household upgrade or repair" without asking you?

Every red cent I earn goes to household expenses, kids, cars and savings for retirement and college.  At the end of the month, the balance of my cashflow is 0.  There is nothing extra, so if she sees the backup system as a necessity, she needs to tap into the $5K.  Pretty simple I think, and not something that should be beyond normal expectation.

Of course, she always claims the house is "hers."  Since I haven't actually lived there more than a few months in the last three years, may she could pay to take care of "her" house.  
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