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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, I just took them all because she had already dressed them and had them fed. Also, during the doctors appointment she took them to the park downstairs and about a mile away. The kids are 2 mos, 19 mos (one at the appt), 3 yr old twins, and a 6 yr old. And she had a few toys that she packed to bring, I thought they would be okay in the waiting room. [/quote]

Wow, at your original post I thought how selfish you were.  That's not reasonable to ask a 17 year old to babysit 4 or 5 kids to entertain them like that.  It is not her job to raise your children.  Helping occasionally, ok, but you are raising them, not her.  I think you owe her a huge thank you for her help and a little gratitude.  She is right.  You choose to have 6 kids, they are your responsibility and you should have knowing after the first few how hard it is.  If she got them dressed, fed, packed up and in the car, then I am very impressed given I'm not getting what responsibility you are taking for your kids except driving.  4 kids under 3 is way too much to ask her to handle.[/quote]

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