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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Will DD see family that she rarely sees since they live far away?  I kinda think a grandma would rather she go on the 8th grade trip!  Tough one.  No real wrong or right.[/quote]
In spite of the usual dcum bandwagon vitriol, I agree with this. There is no right or wrong.

Funerals are very much for the living, and the ex isn't holding up his end of the bargain to be supported by a 14 year old.

OTOH, if DF was close to grandmother, she may regret not going.

OToOH, these promotion ceremonies and trips are often foundational memories. Hard to miss this time and you can never get it back.

OTfOH...the point pp made about the ex holding it over you is one to consider.

You are not a terrible parent. You are trying to balance a tricky situation.

If it were me, I would not send her unless she wants to go. I hated my GM but went to her funeral to support my mom because we were incredibly close. DD seems like she barely has a father.

If I were the dead one, I would not want my grandchild missing out too mourn at a funeral, not when she could celebrate my life and death in other ways. [/quote]

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