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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I know this will sound like judgment and I really truly don't mean it in that way but how do you grow to trust someone enough to leave your potential to provide for yourself in their hands? It feels so scary to me precisely because of what so many have had to fight for in this thread. [/quote] Growing up, I had the experience of watching my aunt struggle after her husband did the cliched thing of dumping her for his 30-years younger assistant when she was 55 and had dedicated her entire marriage to raising kids and supporting his high-powered career (his decision). It made me determined to never have to depend on a man. I have always maintained my own career even though DH makes 5 times my income. [/quote]
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