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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just do it, OP. Don't be selfish. This is your sister. [/quote]

No. It's not selfish to not want to risk your own physical and mental health so that your sister can bear your child. WTH. This isn't like refusing to let her borrow your favorite sweater.[/quote]

It wouldn't be OP's child. [/quote]

Of course it is. You can't change biology.[/quote]

Eh, I'm adopted and know who my birth parents are.  I've never felt a particular draw to them and I've certainly never felt like I was their child.  [/quote]

The question is more how do your birth parents feel about you? I would sooner agree to be a surrogate than an egg donor. I don't think I would feel that attached to a child I only carried for 9 months but otherwise wasn't related to.[/quote]

Well they have been a part of my life since I was a baby as they are involved in the overall family/close friend dynamic.  They have never given me any impression that they feel like I'm theirs or anything like that.  They treat my siblings and me the exact same, which is different from the children they had later in life.  I'm not saying what people are saying is wrong, but putting out blanket statements is.  It works for some people, it doesn't work for others.  [/quote]

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