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[quote=Anonymous]OP. I am in a serious relationship with a divorced dad and I have dated others. This is NOT ok. You aren't even the stepmom. But even if you WERE the stepmom, he should not be pushing off so much of the child care to you. He is the DAD. He has shared custody. HE should be caring for them. Leaving, overnight, on HIS custody time? Should be a rarity. And he shouldn't even be leaving them with you for a few hours either unless it's an extreme emergency. If he can't be there for his kids, he should either give the mom more custody OR have stable, PAID child care in place. This is not a good dad. And he is using you. Move on. If you don't want to move on, tell him his kids are delightful but that at this stage in the relationship, you think you should only spend time with them when he is present. That you don't think it's the right dynamic for you to be babysitting. [/quote]
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