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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I've read all your posts and none come off as someone looking for marriage or anything serious. You're looking for companionship and a permanent girlfriend. Women your age are looking for marriage and kids. That's just the beginning of the issues I see in what you've written, but it's a big one.[/quote]

I would be ecstatic to find someone to marry. Kids ehhh not so much. I don’t particularly think I would be a good father as I think the level of patience to raise kids is not something I readily have but it’s something I would be willing to work on and reassess.  [/quote]

Way to bury the lede.

Women don’t want you because you don’t want kids. 99.9% of women want children, or at the age range you should be dating, already have kids.

That being said, please don’t have kids just because you think it’s the only way to land a woman. That’s a terrible reason to bring kids into the world and it will mess them up. And don’t date women with kids since you lack patience, last thing a child with divorced parents need is mom’s crappy boyfriend yelling at them.

You can still find someone, but you’ll need to really play the numbers game. Probably worth hiring a matchmaker. [/quote]

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