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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you have a dh who can credibly pull attractive women 20-30 years younger than he is, you are not going to ever find someone at that level should you chose to leave (unless you are Giselle bundchen or ultra elite/top tier yourself) Calm down and reassess before making any rash decisions OP [/quote] Honestly, as a woman who’s been through something similar, the last thing I wanted was another man. The threat, “If you leave him you’ll never find anyone as good,” is not threat you think it is. Situations like the one OP describes are so bad for everyone - kids included - that it’s healthier, safe and more peaceful to be alone for the rest of one’s life (if that in fact is the way it works out). 20 years later I still remember the immense relief I felt when I kicked my husband out, and he actually left.[/quote]
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