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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I got divorced last year then had a fling with a man who awakened this lust in me. It was incredible. But he was a bad boy in every sense of the word and not a suitable long term partner.

I’m now dating someone much more sensible and it’s been more challenging to awaken that lust. Interestingly, it seems to come back more when we get space and both operate as separate people, rather than one unit. More space always seems to help my lust come back.  [/quote]

A friend of mine forever bachelor is f**g a married woman. He is the kind of bad of boy you are describing. [b]Women will give the best sex to a bad boy, but they will endlessly complain about the "regular" boring guy who is faithful.[/b][/quote]

PP. So, I have tried to give the "best" sex to the sensible, good guy. But good/regular guys usually lack the same inhibition, assertiveness, and risk-taking in bed that bad boys have.

As an example, the "bad boy" I had a fling with was very free and open with dirty talk. The "good guy" I'm dating feels awkward with dirty talk and worries it's disrespectful.

So like, I can say or do raunchy things, but when I'm met with silence, awkwardness, or he's obviously uncomfortable, there's not much else I can do to make sex better. I love exploring new things but the good guys generally just want vanilla. Often not even vanilla, it's more like....skim milk.[/quote]
Feminism is partly to blame for this. The good guy works his mind to prioritize being respectful. He will want to ask permission for everything. He will be scared of being accused of assault. This is how society expects men to behave. This is creating more end that are in nature less assertive and less risk-taking. [/quote]
This is shockingly false and I can’t believe any grown people believe this. A “good guy” isn’t scared of being accused of assault because it would never cross his mind to assault someone. Anyone who says men are timid because women are fed up with being harassed, assaulted, etc is absolutely doing offensive and disgusting things constantly. They are not a “good guy”.[/quote]

This. Men who are scared of getting called out for how they engage women are on some BS, and they know it. No "good guy" is afraid to engage a woman.[/quote]

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