Anonymous
02/06/2026 12:18
Subject: Do You Miss the Lust?
No, I don’t. Heated Rivalry and Bridgerton are just softcore porn and getting you all riled up. Don’t do anything stupid just because you have a porn habit.
Anonymous
02/06/2026 03:48
Subject: Do You Miss the Lust?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
These statements are ABSOULUTLEY FALSE and made by VERY naive people.
There are women out there that are traumatized by past incidents and become totally crazy in some circumstances with a "good guy". Firsthand experience on more than one occasion. If you don't have any dating experience with those women, don't be making naive assumptions.
Nah, there are women who are re-traumatized by a guy who thinks he's a "good guy" but isn't, and there are truly good men who help women beyond their past traumas.
Sorry you're the former, thinking you're the latter.
HaHa I don't think you're ready for adulthood because you think the world revolves around only your experiences.
I've had 2 occasions where everything was going well with no clues that after they put the condom on me, instantly go cray cray and tell me she can't go thru with it. One broke down telling me about a previous rape. The other broke down telling me she completed the deed with someone before but felt she was pressured into it and was working to get over her trama. There's tons of women out there doing damage to "good guys".
Thank you for proving the pp's point.
It's not "cray cray" for a woman to want to stop, at any time, for any reason. Only an air-quotes "good guy" would think otherwise.
+1. Very bizarre he thinks a woman not wanting to have sex is doing damage to “good guys”. I’ve stopped midway through hooking up with guys, and the good ones are fine with it.
I would never want to have sex with someone who didn’t want to, no matter how far into it we were.
Maybe he’s just desperate for sex? Perhaps when you rarely get it, the rejection is just too much to handle.
The bolded is the difference between someone who sees you as a partner in a shared experience vs. an object for their satisfaction
Anonymous
02/06/2026 03:47
Subject: Do You Miss the Lust?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
These statements are ABSOULUTLEY FALSE and made by VERY naive people.
There are women out there that are traumatized by past incidents and become totally crazy in some circumstances with a "good guy". Firsthand experience on more than one occasion. If you don't have any dating experience with those women, don't be making naive assumptions.
Nah, there are women who are re-traumatized by a guy who thinks he's a "good guy" but isn't, and there are truly good men who help women beyond their past traumas.
Sorry you're the former, thinking you're the latter.
HaHa I don't think you're ready for adulthood because you think the world revolves around only your experiences.
I've had 2 occasions where everything was going well with no clues that after they put the condom on me, instantly go cray cray and tell me she can't go thru with it. One broke down telling me about a previous rape. The other broke down telling me she completed the deed with someone before but felt she was pressured into it and was working to get over her trama. There's tons of women out there doing damage to "good guys".
The projection in this comment is so strong! Some mediocre chad thinks he's a good guy while being completely rekt that a woman didn't want to go through with it. Bro, putting on a condom isn't a contract. Stick to jerking off; you're not enough of an adult to be having sex with other people, especially since you apparently can't even see them as whole people having an experience of their own that's not exclusively about you/your dick.
Some of you women are hilarious. Every now and men want to share the truth with you so that you can improve your relationships. Instead you want to name call and be thick skulled in your own feminist ways. Good luck to you and your relationships. You're the cray cray us men want to avoid.
You're on a thread about "do you miss the lust" whingeing that some woman had the good sense not to risk reproducing with you. Again, there's no "cray cray" but the brand you brought, buddy. You didn't bring some deep wisdom, you brought the same rank male entitlement that has dried up all the posters this thread was addressing. Expectations are a lust killer, and you have some pretty big ones for someone who's probably working with a whole lotta not much.
Anonymous
02/05/2026 21:40
Subject: Do You Miss the Lust?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
These statements are ABSOULUTLEY FALSE and made by VERY naive people.
There are women out there that are traumatized by past incidents and become totally crazy in some circumstances with a "good guy". Firsthand experience on more than one occasion. If you don't have any dating experience with those women, don't be making naive assumptions.
Nah, there are women who are re-traumatized by a guy who thinks he's a "good guy" but isn't, and there are truly good men who help women beyond their past traumas.
Sorry you're the former, thinking you're the latter.
HaHa I don't think you're ready for adulthood because you think the world revolves around only your experiences.
I've had 2 occasions where everything was going well with no clues that after they put the condom on me, instantly go cray cray and tell me she can't go thru with it. One broke down telling me about a previous rape. The other broke down telling me she completed the deed with someone before but felt she was pressured into it and was working to get over her trama. There's tons of women out there doing damage to "good guys".
Thank you for proving the pp's point.
It's not "cray cray" for a woman to want to stop, at any time, for any reason. Only an air-quotes "good guy" would think otherwise.
+1. Very bizarre he thinks a woman not wanting to have sex is doing damage to “good guys”. I’ve stopped midway through hooking up with guys, and the good ones are fine with it.
I would never want to have sex with someone who didn’t want to, no matter how far into it we were.
Maybe he’s just desperate for sex? Perhaps when you rarely get it, the rejection is just too much to handle.
Anonymous
02/05/2026 21:20
Subject: Do You Miss the Lust?
Miss feeling desirable...
Anonymous
02/05/2026 19:41
Subject: Do You Miss the Lust?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
These statements are ABSOULUTLEY FALSE and made by VERY naive people.
There are women out there that are traumatized by past incidents and become totally crazy in some circumstances with a "good guy". Firsthand experience on more than one occasion. If you don't have any dating experience with those women, don't be making naive assumptions.
Nah, there are women who are re-traumatized by a guy who thinks he's a "good guy" but isn't, and there are truly good men who help women beyond their past traumas.
Sorry you're the former, thinking you're the latter.
HaHa I don't think you're ready for adulthood because you think the world revolves around only your experiences.
I've had 2 occasions where everything was going well with no clues that after they put the condom on me, instantly go cray cray and tell me she can't go thru with it. One broke down telling me about a previous rape. The other broke down telling me she completed the deed with someone before but felt she was pressured into it and was working to get over her trama. There's tons of women out there doing damage to "good guys".
The projection in this comment is so strong! Some mediocre chad thinks he's a good guy while being completely rekt that a woman didn't want to go through with it. Bro, putting on a condom isn't a contract. Stick to jerking off; you're not enough of an adult to be having sex with other people, especially since you apparently can't even see them as whole people having an experience of their own that's not exclusively about you/your dick.
Some of you women are hilarious. Every now and men want to share the truth with you so that you can improve your relationships. Instead you want to name call and be thick skulled in your own feminist ways. Good luck to you and your relationships. You're the cray cray us men want to avoid.
Anonymous
02/05/2026 15:06
Subject: Do You Miss the Lust?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
These statements are ABSOULUTLEY FALSE and made by VERY naive people.
There are women out there that are traumatized by past incidents and become totally crazy in some circumstances with a "good guy". Firsthand experience on more than one occasion. If you don't have any dating experience with those women, don't be making naive assumptions.
Nah, there are women who are re-traumatized by a guy who thinks he's a "good guy" but isn't, and there are truly good men who help women beyond their past traumas.
Sorry you're the former, thinking you're the latter.
HaHa I don't think you're ready for adulthood because you think the world revolves around only your experiences.
I've had 2 occasions where everything was going well with no clues that after they put the condom on me, instantly go cray cray and tell me she can't go thru with it. One broke down telling me about a previous rape. The other broke down telling me she completed the deed with someone before but felt she was pressured into it and was working to get over her trama. There's tons of women out there doing damage to "good guys".
The projection in this comment is so strong! Some mediocre chad thinks he's a good guy while being completely rekt that a woman didn't want to go through with it. Bro, putting on a condom isn't a contract. Stick to jerking off; you're not enough of an adult to be having sex with other people, especially since you apparently can't even see them as whole people having an experience of their own that's not exclusively about you/your dick.
Anonymous
02/05/2026 15:03
Subject: Do You Miss the Lust?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
These statements are ABSOULUTLEY FALSE and made by VERY naive people.
There are women out there that are traumatized by past incidents and become totally crazy in some circumstances with a "good guy". Firsthand experience on more than one occasion. If you don't have any dating experience with those women, don't be making naive assumptions.
Nah, there are women who are re-traumatized by a guy who thinks he's a "good guy" but isn't, and there are truly good men who help women beyond their past traumas.
Sorry you're the former, thinking you're the latter.
HaHa I don't think you're ready for adulthood because you think the world revolves around only your experiences.
I've had 2 occasions where everything was going well with no clues that after they put the condom on me, instantly go cray cray and tell me she can't go thru with it. One broke down telling me about a previous rape. The other broke down telling me she completed the deed with someone before but felt she was pressured into it and was working to get over her trama. There's tons of women out there doing damage to "good guys".
Thank you for proving the pp's point.
It's not "cray cray" for a woman to want to stop, at any time, for any reason. Only an air-quotes "good guy" would think otherwise.
Anonymous
02/05/2026 14:05
Subject: Do You Miss the Lust?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
These statements are ABSOULUTLEY FALSE and made by VERY naive people.
There are women out there that are traumatized by past incidents and become totally crazy in some circumstances with a "good guy". Firsthand experience on more than one occasion. If you don't have any dating experience with those women, don't be making naive assumptions.
Nah, there are women who are re-traumatized by a guy who thinks he's a "good guy" but isn't, and there are truly good men who help women beyond their past traumas.
Sorry you're the former, thinking you're the latter.
HaHa I don't think you're ready for adulthood because you think the world revolves around only your experiences.
I've had 2 occasions where everything was going well with no clues that after they put the condom on me, instantly go cray cray and tell me she can't go thru with it. One broke down telling me about a previous rape. The other broke down telling me she completed the deed with someone before but felt she was pressured into it and was working to get over her trama. There's tons of women out there doing damage to "good guys".
Anonymous
02/05/2026 13:26
Subject: Do You Miss the Lust?
Anonymous wrote:
These statements are ABSOULUTLEY FALSE and made by VERY naive people.
There are women out there that are traumatized by past incidents and become totally crazy in some circumstances with a "good guy". Firsthand experience on more than one occasion. If you don't have any dating experience with those women, don't be making naive assumptions.
Nah, there are women who are re-traumatized by a guy who thinks he's a "good guy" but isn't, and there are truly good men who help women beyond their past traumas.
Sorry you're the former, thinking you're the latter.
Anonymous
02/05/2026 13:25
Subject: Do You Miss the Lust?
My husband and I still go at it like it's the first time. Mid 40s, 18 years together.
Anonymous
02/05/2026 13:21
Subject: Do You Miss the Lust?
So like, I can say or do raunchy things, but when I'm met with silence, awkwardness, or he's obviously uncomfortable, there's not much else I can do to make sex better. I love exploring new things but the good guys generally just want vanilla. Often not even vanilla, it's more like....skim milk.
Feminism is partly to blame for this. The good guy works his mind to prioritize being respectful. He will want to ask permission for everything. He will be scared of being accused of assault. This is how society expects men to behave. This is creating more end that are in nature less assertive and less risk-taking.
This is shockingly false and I can’t believe any grown people believe this. A “good guy” isn’t scared of being accused of assault because it would never cross his mind to assault someone. Anyone who says men are timid because women are fed up with being harassed, assaulted, etc is absolutely doing offensive and disgusting things constantly. They are not a “good guy”.
This. Men who are scared of getting called out for how they engage women are on some BS, and they know it. No "good guy" is afraid to engage a woman.
These statements are ABSOULUTLEY FALSE and made by VERY naive people.
There are women out there that are traumatized by past incidents and become totally crazy in some circumstances with a "good guy". Firsthand experience on more than one occasion. If you don't have any dating experience with those women, don't be making naive assumptions.