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[quote=Anonymous]The % of men or women who are amazing, caring, reliable, and attractive is very small.

1) Meet their family and friends. If they have a great family and a great relationship with them, that goes a long way. Do they have long time connections - friends they have collected throughout life that they keep in touch with? People like to stay in touch with really good people so if someone is amazing and caring and reliable - friends throughout life will stay in touch.

2) Check for emotional stability and regulation. If they are easily irritated, frustrated, stressed, anxious, tearful - throw them back into the sea. You want an even keeled adult with good emotional regulation and emotional management skills.

3) Do they expect of themselves what they expect of you? Be sure they have equal standards and expectations.

4) Are they financially stable and responsible? Are you going to be financial equals? Are are they looking for someone to live off of? Have they lived independently as an adult? Do they manage their finances well?

5) Do they care about others? Do they like to help other people. Do they support their friends and family? Do they go out of their way to be a kind and caring person to those in need? Do they speak kindly about others? Are they judgmental? Or are they individualistic and focused on themselves? Do they blame others? Do they cut off other people? Do they have interpersonal drama in their lives?

6) Are they flexible and able to go with the flow? Are they open to the opinions and perspectives of others? Can they adapt in the moment to change? Can they take responsiblity easily and apologize? Do they see the good in others?[/quote]

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