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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'd be extremely cautious.  You may call me a hypocrite but I've been divorced 3x.  It's not a matter of "not knowing what you want". [b] In all 3 cases the men wanted a "good woman" but they changed as soon as we married.  I admit I should have dated them longer before I married them.  The last two were only 6 months.[/b]  They were able to hide alot in that amount of time!  I stayed with #1 7 yrs.  7 yrs. of him cheating and then apologizing, etc....  2nd one couldn't stand to be apart.  Wanted to see me daily.  I even took a class after wk. to put some space between us.  He was happy, loving, etc. UNTIL I sd. I do!  Suddenly it was like he argued ab out everything.  Shut himself off in a room with his stereo and books and then wanted to have passionate sex no matter how he was treating me!  So, about 3 yrs. later I met another guy (last two were at church!) He admitted to PAST issues with drugs because he knew I would hear that about him from people who knew him in high school; but at the age of 35 he claimed that was all in the past.  Guess what? NOT!  Within a month of marrying him he left a job  saying he got fired.  Eventually admitted he couldn't pass the drug test.  Sat around letting me work and support him while he sd. he was looking for work.  Turned out he was "waiting for one that paid what he felt he was worth!  Obviously a loser!  So, ask the person who has gone thru 3 divorces if they would marry again!  Probably not without alot of time and making sure Jekyl/Hyde situation isn't going on![/quote]

You are the biggest part of your picking-the-wrong-men problem; you realize that, right?[/quote]

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