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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP all this is really splitting hairs. Your DH spent more than $500 one night that you know of, going to a nude club and getting personal services that were sexual or orgasm-adjacent. 
Do you think this is a way you want your spouse to act? 
It may not be his virgin nudie club visit.
[b]Either do a look the other way wife act or get a lawyer.[/b]
But a guy like this may not be planning on celebrating a 25th anniversary with you. [/quote]

These are truly the choices. Pick one, OP. [/quote]

I would leave him, personally, because this is an absurd use of $500 to me, but I think [b]it's also reasonable to expect that if she's expected to look the other way, he's expected to be somewhat more discreet about his activities.[/b] I guess a "lap dance" in a city several states away is fairly discreet, but paying for it with his personal Venmo, in a way his wife found without too much effort, is not. [/quote]

She went through his phone. You can't accuse him of having a problem with discretion because she "found [it] without too much effort" by going through his phone. [/quote]

She didn't say she went through his phone. She said she had proof of payment and mentioned Venmo. Paying a stripper via Venmo is incredibly indiscreet.[/quote]

She also knew the schedule of events for evening via texts with his buddy. If he’s using iOS it’s possible the text were popping up on an iPad or iMac that was synced. It’s not certain she was snooping.[/quote]

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