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[quote=Anonymous]DH has been divorced twice. It was definitely a caution sign for me. First marriage was at 18. He grew up without plans/aspirations for college and married high school sweet heart. A few years into it, things fell apart, as teen marriages often do. 2 nd marriage, he met wife in grad school. Married for almost 15 years. He would describe it as a calculated marriage. No love, just two stable people thinking they could make a go of things. By all accounts a boring marriage, and she eventually had an affair. Well, she said she did, but then later came back and said she didn't but was just seeking attention. Regardless, it was the out he was looking for and they divorced. 
All this is to say, it's not ideal and def provided for some initial insecurities for me, as this was my first marriage.
I would encourage anyone who is thinking of marrying someone who is divorced, to look not at the number alone. Look at how they regard their ex spouse. Are they civil? Do they still share friends ? Do they spend time bashing the other person? Those types of things are bigger red flags to me.[/quote]

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