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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]how old is the guest? 
What is the relationship to the host? 
And what is the guest's gender/sexual identity? 
What is the event? A wedding or Grandma's 80th birthday?
If it's a wedding, is it favorite cousin? Dad's second? mom's best friend's child? 
and who are you in this situation?

All of this plays into how I'd handle this.[/quote]

Sexual identy is irrelevant.

If you think a special pass on manners is allowable for anyone who isn't straight or a gay man, then you are being ridiculous.[/quote]
No it’s very relevant. I’m a gay woman. I’m fine being a woman with no gender issues. However, I dislike women’s clothing. I don’t like the tighter fit, I don’t wear dresses or skirts ever. It physically makes me uncomfortable and then adds social anxiety as well because it just doesn’t feel right.
So I’d skip the event entirely. 
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No, sexual identy is not relevant.

Are you seriously saying that lesbian women don't have the ability to dress nicely or appropriately?

Because there are hundreds of thousands of people from that community who would beg to differ.

Anyone can pull our a pair of dark pants and a simple plain shirt out of their closet.

Who you sleep with has zero to do with having good manners.

If you are arguing the opposite, then you are setting back the progress made in that community by decades.[/quote]

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