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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]how old is the guest? 
What is the relationship to the host? 
And what is the guest's gender/sexual identity? 
What is the event? A wedding or Grandma's 80th birthday?
If it's a wedding, is it favorite cousin? Dad's second? mom's best friend's child? 
and who are you in this situation?

All of this plays into how I'd handle this.[/quote]

Sexual identy is irrelevant.

If you think a special pass on manners is allowable for anyone who isn't straight or a gay man, then you are being ridiculous.[/quote]

Hey Friend, If this were my 12 year old kid who was finding their identity I'd approach it differently than if it were my 40 year old jackass sister.[/quote]

Yes,, you tell your 12 year old, no matter what she identifies with at any given moment,  to suck it up and wear some presentable clothes because dressing appropriately for special events is basic manners.  She is too young to be disrespectful to the elderly adult family member being honored or the person taking the time to organize the event.

On something like this, gender identity or being lbgtq does not matter one iota, unless you think that being lbgtq gives teens special permission to be rude and disrepectful.[/quote]

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