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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]how old is the guest? What is the relationship to the host? And what is the guest's gender/sexual identity? What is the event? A wedding or Grandma's 80th birthday? If it's a wedding, is it favorite cousin? Dad's second? mom's best friend's child? and who are you in this situation? All of this plays into how I'd handle this.[/quote] Sexual identy is irrelevant. If you think a special pass on manners is allowable for anyone who isn't straight or a gay man, then you are being ridiculous.[/quote] No it’s very relevant. I’m a gay woman. I’m fine being a woman with no gender issues. However, I dislike women’s clothing. I don’t like the tighter fit, I don’t wear dresses or skirts ever. It physically makes me uncomfortable and then adds social anxiety as well because it just doesn’t feel right. So I’d skip the event entirely. [/quote] Why can’t you wear a tux? I am a straight woman who doesn’t like dresses and I have a tux for black tie events. I wear it with a sleeveless top, not a shirt.[/quote]
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