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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You seem confused about what matters. So, your husband has betrayed you and continues to lie about who he issleeping with, where he goes, etc. I Suggest therapy to figure out why you are still attracted to him. [b]Think about What kind of relationship your children are seeing.[/b] See a lawyer also, to understand your rights and options. The woman/coworker is not the problem. The life partner you chose, who vowed to love you and honor you for life is the problem. Work on yourself and your marriage. He invited her in, and only he can send her away. I am sorry that you are going through this. [/quote] DP. To the bolded: please leave your children out of this. You went into a marriage contract knowing that a very significant number of men cheat. The only thing leaving does is show your children how naive you were to enter into such a contract if cheating was a deal breaker. If cheating was a deal breaker, the chances of this contract going south were always high. Don't gaslight them. They will not be happy they gave up their stability so you can show them what a good "relationship" is. Ironically, you'd end up dating someone else's father who is just as scummy as theirs and is single because he cheated on his ex-wife. If you want to leave, go ahead. Just cut the BS about leaving to model some delusional reality for your kids. [/quote] Women are cheating more than men nowadays. [/quote]
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