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[quote=Anonymous]OP I don't know what you should do, but I wanted to be the contrary voice here and advice you to not do some scorched earth moves. Like it or not, he is the father of your children, and it is in both their and your interest that your husband do well in life and that you guys can have a good working relationship in the future. Even though he is at fault for everything up until now, it is still a lot for him to go through and it will/has taken its toll on him. Protect yourself but don't kick him while he is down, and see if you have it within you to be as supportive as you can be (while putting legal protections in place). Only you will know where that line is.

No one should ever try to push someone else more than they need to. People can really spiral and we have all heard of the horrible stories that come from that. I just read the story of the Decker girls, and maybe this is going on a tangent but omg you really never know what someone desperate is capable of doing. [/quote]

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