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Reply to "If you’re happily married 16 plus years what do you attribute it to? What factors? "
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[quote=Anonymous]When we were dating she had me read a book called His Needs/Her Needs. Some of the concepts are a little dated but it created a discussion about what each of us needs from the other in order to be happy and how resentment builds when needs aren’t met over long periods. She needed: 1. Daily, undistracted conversation, 2. Owning half of the household workload, 3. Fiscal responsibility (earning a lot more than I spend), 4. Being a good and engaged parent, 5. Staying in good shape, 6. Good, regular sex I needed: 1. For her to stay in shape/remain reasonably attractive and 2. Regular sex Ultimately, those are the minimum things that we each needed and we’ve far exceeded those for each other through the years. Happily married 22 years.[/quote]
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