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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For all the “it’s okay to decline” folks….would you be okay if almost everyone declined? It seems like most of these couples think people will be excited to travel to Destination but at least half of the guests are actually really irritated and doing it out of obligation and guilt. If those 5p% of guests declined the invite, would the couples be okay with that? It just seems like people need to be more honest about how they feel and then maybe this trend would decrease.[/quote] Sure, it'dbe fine. We planned a destination wedding in Vegas and expected a steep decline rate just because it would involve a flight - thought we'd have 30-45 guests. We got 90 yeses and had to upgrade our venue but the wedding was a blast and we've had multiple people tell us it was the most fun they've ever had at a wedding (even though we were in our ::gasp:: 30s and several friends had kids). I don't know how half the people in this thread get an invitation to a destination wedding and think "just say you don't want me there" and the other half think "you'll be furious if anyone declines" and you're all sure you're right. 🤣[/quote]
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