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[quote=Anonymous]" Even if you are married to someone, you are not guaranteed a certain lifestyle for life - disasters happen, disabilities happen, federal RIFs happen when you are in your 50s. If someone loses their livelihood, the family has to adjust." I'm sure that if his income dropped significantly, he could get out of these agreements. But that's not what this language is for. It's there for the most likely situation, which is that his income increases over the years. And that is what has happened over the past 10 years or so since the divorce. FWIW, DC is finishing junior year of college and so far, everything has worked out as I planned. I know that there is no telling what will happen with his inheritance. Our agreement requires him to show me proof that he is still carrying the life insurance policy once a year. Since we are still in touch over college things, I get updates more often than that and he's reminded about his obligations through those interactions. He knows me well enough to understand that I will cost Wife #2 a ton of money in legal bills if DC gets short changed upon ExH's death. I would absolutely challenge it. [/quote]
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