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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I really rather him just leave me. He probably is having an affair despite denying it. I just don’t get it. He can go and be happy with wherever. I’ll be fine. But he cannot do this to our kids. This is the man who would turn down buddy trips to take his kids camping. Who is this man? [/quote] He is 100% having an affair. Why he is not admitted to it or leaving you, I have several ideas. His AP is also married and doesn’t want to leave her husband. So if he divorced you, he would be alone. By not leaving you he gets the best of both worlds. A home, financially stability and cooked meals. Leaving is scary. At the same time he is having a great time with his new AP. They are in love. You need to find out. The not knowing and being gaslit will make you lose your mind. The kids need one stable parent. I would recommend seeing a therapist on your own and discuss this. You will need all the support you can get, but it will get harder while you slog through this. It sucks, but be resolute, I found that helps. [/quote]
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