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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some kind of hobby or activity that you actually enjoy.  Find someone with a common interest.[/quote]

This.

If you’re religious, join a large church, synagogue, etc. with like-minded believers.  If you have a cause you believe in, volunteer.  If you are intellectually curious, take a class, ho to museum events, etc.  Join a civic group to find civic minded individuals.  Join a choir, sports team, garden club, hiking group, ballroom dance class, D&D gamers, etc. - whatever it is that you love.

Basically, live your life doing what makes you happy.  The people you meet in doing so will be more likely to be compatible, either as friends or romantic partners, because of your common interests.  If a romance develops, you’ll have something to build on and know that they accept you for who you are, and if it doesn’t, you’ll still have spent that time living your best life, rather than staying in a holding pattern waiting for someone else to make you happy.  There’s an opportunity cost for everything, and while romance can be wonderful, every relationship requires compromises.  While you’re waiting for the right person to come along, you are free to do whatever you want, without having to accommodate someone else’s opposing preferences.  Take advantage of it while you can, and maybe you’ll find a sympathetic spirit along the way whose preferences will (mostly) align with your own. [/quote]

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