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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are the same person using the same language, pretending to be a different person supporting yourself. I am not selfish nor a heartless piece of garbage for not wanting to clean out your s*. You are the selfish person here, and I'm sure you're speaking for yourself, probably sitting on a pile of garbage, demanding your adult kids to deal with it. Yes, there is resentment for a reason. This is a board to come to exchange experiences with eldercare, and most people who come here have NEGATIVE experiences, because the elders in their lives are/were not good people with good characters. It happens, not everybody is a kind and generous person, turning into a kind and generous elder. There is a reason for that. Otherwise I wouldn't be on this board. I feel absolutely no shame nor pity, you and such elders have created their own circumstances. Your guilt tripping and manipulation does not work in the end. And I can add that I'll never be that person in the end, the same as I never was that person all my life (these scenarios as you say don't magically happen in the end out of nowhere). [/quote] I am not the same person. Just another one who think's your selfish and gross. And you are not alone, there are many like you on here. I'm nowhere near elderly, either. So you can take your assumptions and stuff them. You are now resorting/changing to your parents were not good people. THat is a separate issue. Your defensive betrays your guilt. It's evident. As for what you will/won't do as you get older, I hope you do as you say. And that you are extended more grace, patience, and compassion then you are showing. [/quote]
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