Reply to Very sad today--home clean out

Forum Index » Eldercare

Reply to "Very sad today--home clean out"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]

If you think I resent my mom and remember her poorly as a selfish person because I had to take 1-2 weeks of my personal time to declutter first her house and second her condo after she passed away… then you are a complete idiot. She did many, many good things for me and I had no problem doing some hard work for her in the endgame.

“Hey could you please throw away all your possessions to make it more convenient for me when you croak” is the attitude of a garbage human being (ie you).[/quote]

What kind of vile person comes online to call strangers' names because they can make no reasonable argument? I'm not a complete idiot and neither is any other woman who doesn't want to do work that somebody else should have done. You do not get to bully others online. Good for you that your mom did good things for you and you have the time and willingness. Not everybody is like you. In the end, yes, it's important to make peace with your passing and getting rid of your material possessions in due time is the right thing to do. Generations before us did that. I'd say not collecting all the material possessions in the first place is better, but for that one needs a person with a more spiritual worldview. It's a sad life when everything revolves around your possessions, and even worse if you expect and demand others to deal with them. It's obviously not about convenience, it's about what the person stands for and their example of the life experience. [/quote]

NP and I fully agree with the PP you're criticizing. SHe didn't bully you. She called you out for being the heartless and selfish person you are presenting on here. And her argument is sound: these are YOUR PARENTS. And your attitude is shameful. [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics