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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hope the posters calling AP a whore aren’t staying with their disgusting husbands.

OP doesn’t sound concerned, she just wanted revenge on the AP. Great, now both AP and her DH are free to be in a legit relationship.[/quote]

[b]Two cheating whores deserve one another. Scumbags.[/b] [/quote]

The better way to see this: two suffering people, dying emotionally in their marriages to disappointing partners. They see each other across a crowded room and fall in love, liberating each other from unhappiness.

Sometimes the moral choice is to explore the feelings, to have the affair. When the spouse underachieves so much and weighs you down, they have silently given you permission to look around for a better option.

When you find that better option, the moral thing to do is to jump so that your kids can finally see what a loving marriage between two sane, not crazy, successful people looks like.[/quote]

They type in a disgusting profile with a pathetic username on an affair website looking for sex because they are decrepit and ugly and messed up.

Your Pollyanna Notebook Bridges of Madison County bullsh@t is fantasy.  The guy will say whatever he can to get sex for free and then ghost you and go no contact when you start pushing for more.

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Nope. Moral equivalence, from the first PP I quoted.  Woman here, late 50s single six years. I’m divorced for a reason. I don’t explore looks or your escapist fantasies with married men. Just zero interest in some cheating POS. I liberated myself from my own situation- via divorce. Now I can do what I want.

If two married people escape the reality of their lives and children and the actual work that all takes- claiming it as a moral choice, I’d do a hard stop. It’s a great way to focus your attention on another instead of looking within and recognizing that your marriage- which you’re still in- failed. There’s no sense of the heartache you leave in your wrath, because your spouses may have been unhappy- but surely weren’t prepared to meet an affair partner, new wife, and “liberator” who claims some sort of high ground while the shards of their kids vision of home and security falls by the wayside.

-divorced parent [/quote]

I've read this six times and still can't figure out what the F you're saying. [/quote]

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