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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You [i]are[/i] embarrassed by him. Hence this post. And as you say, sex is an issue.

Don’t be shocked when he chooses to move on. As a physician he can pretty easily find someone new — probably younger—who looks up to him. And when that happens he is going to feel like someone dying in the desert who has finally found water. And you will be served with divorce papers.

Mark my words.[/quote]
She’ll walk off with half their assets and find a hotter guy.[/quote]
Exactly. Win for her.  No one would tell a man he just needs to suck it up and have sex with a super fat woman he's not attracted to... why are women any different? Especially because weight gain on a man doesn't do ANYTHING positive, unlike with women- there are no bigger boobs, hips, butt to distract yourself with. Just a lose lose all around.[/quote]

In the context of a marriage or committed relationship where you supposedly love the whole person, not just the desirable sex parther in the body you prefer, changes to your spouse's or partner's body are not supposed to send you running to dump or cheat on your spouse. They're either normal aging (and good luck avoiding that changing [i]your own[/i] body) or they're possibly signs that your partner may need help with health issues. And you deal with both those things as a team. That is, IF you believe commitment goes beyond "I'll stick with you as long as you're within this designated range of weight...wrinkle coverage...gray in the hair..." 
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