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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We never have sex when the kid is home.  Ever.  We both wfh on Fridays and we occasionally while she is at school (or camp).  But it has been about 6 weeks, which is not an unusual frequency for us…. [/quote]
You don’t have sex for six weeks at a time?! [/quote]

I think this is a lot more common than you think but no one talks about it because people like you will act like it's shameful.

DH and I are more frequent than that (more like twice a month) but have had a number of dry spells of around 6 weeks and they increase as we get older because they are often due to medical issues and those increase as we get older. Like I fell playing tennis a few months ago and had a bruised tailbone and just didn't want to do it until pain was gone. DH had a series of oral surgeries last year to fix a broken tooth and even though it was just his mouth he was on pain meds for it and it was also mentally taxing and he just wanted to go to bed early for a while. And so on.

Once you hit about 45 I have found that frequency falls off a lot. I guess libido waning too. It's still there but the idea of going without sex for 6 weeks doesn't sound like a big deal at all to me at this point whereas when I was in my 30s it would have been a problem.[/quote]

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