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[quote=Anonymous]Op here. To answer some questions:
His work hours- he’s on maxi flex so it doesn’t matter as long as he hits 40.

We actually do have a good marriage. And yes this changed a bit over the past year. He didn’t work so long before. The project he’s on is very complex. It’s not me he’s avoiding. He’s happy to spend the rest of the evening with me once the kids are asleep. I think he genuinely forgets what time it is. And yeah it’s very very difficult to manage the kids during this time, we both dread it. He likes kids. I think both of us didn’t realize quite how hard kids are and how much we’d struggle with them.

Both of us have hands on dads and our moms worked. His mom wasn’t a sahm like suggested. We both grew up eating dinner at 6pm with both our parents present.

And over scheduling my kids?? We have a pretty low key schedule. We are healthy and I do cook from scratch, but I make a lot so we eat it as leftovers the next night.

I think it’s his work that’s the issue. He just needs to leave after 8 or 9 hours and tell them to hire more people. I would be fine with him working an extra hour daily. 8-5pm or 8-5:30. [/quote]

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