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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not really.

Only because this is 2024 & [b]our society doesn’t necessarily look down on people who have children w/out being married[/b].

Reason being is that more people are independent now, and they make their own decisions in their lives for them + them only.

Not based on what society or other people dictate.

Sure it is okay to believe in tradition and if that is how you think that is clearly okay to do.
Depending on how important this issue is to you it can affect the dating dynamics that modern dating can entail.

I personally wouldn’t write off a man who had a child out of wedlock just based on that one fact……
Other things would impact whether or not I would date him such as his relationship w/his child now + whether or not he is playing an active part in that child’s life currently.

In other words, the present would be more important to me than the past in a case like this.[/quote]
I think, rather, [b]people publicly cannot say anything about how this is generally a bad thing [/b]because so many kids are born to unmarried mothers.

I personally don't know why people would commit to bringing a child into the world if they can't commit to marriage. The first is lightyears more intense and important than the second. If you don't love each other enough to commit, then it's crazy to have a baby with someone if you have the choice. I would never commit to a man who had a baby out of wedlock with a woman because I think it shows he doesn't take having a child seriously enough... either to protect them from an unplanned pregnancy or to get into a relationship and have sex with someone he doesn't love.[/quote]
Also, you'd be called racist in a heartbeat because a higher proportion of unwed mothers are minorities. White people 100% cannot ever publicly state a preference for kids to be born in a committed relationship.[/quote]

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