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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]lol. So divorce establishes the permission structure. “See? I’m not the only one who thought he was marriage material.”

So weird.[/quote]

No, that is not the logic. I’d marry someone who was never married as well. Divorce says….I think having a baby with someone is serious enough to warrant marriage. It sucks that the marriage didn’t work out. There is surely stuff to investigate on why it ended. But we are on the same page with respect to the importance of kids being born inside of marriage. Everyone doesn’t have to agree. Those just happen to be my values, and something I want my partner to agree with.[/quote]

What if the guy wanted to get married but the mother didn’t? It takes two to have a wedding.[/quote]

The fact that she didn’t want to marry him…..says something.[/quote]

+1. Don’t avoid dating my ex bc we had a great child together. Child is amazing. Avoid dating him for the same reasons I didn’t marry him, and I’ll leave it at that. If that doesn’t turn you off, he has no involvement in her life, and when asked why, claims it’s because I still want a relationship with him, so he has to keep his distance. It would be laughable if it weren’t so sad for DD. He has never been able to focus just on her, but this is because he is who he is. [/quote]

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